My Insight on Mr. Big

  
   Hey loves! I hope everyone is having a wonderful week so far, I know I am- hence the photo above. Lately, I’ve been in my head a lot but not in a negative fashion. No, one of love and security. I’ve reentered a relationship that I questioned for a little while. You know, one of those “I’m not going to go back” but in the corner of your mind there’s a whisper saying,”don’t let go”? That tugging in your chest and adrenaline in your veins that confirm your decision to continue to love and repeatedly fall in love with someone, that’s where I am. When we decided to work on our relationship, sure there were many naysayers but I would only be shocked if there weren’t. 

  
   My ideal couple- yeah, I said it. I love these two. The passion, compromise, strengths, weaknesses.. The faults and mistakes, the skeletons hidden to everyone else but he knows it all just as I do. No boundaries of transparency or conditions to love. Only the openness and willingness to constantly put the other person’s feeling into consideration regardless of the sacrifice (and I do mean that in the most positive way possible). He’s my Mr. Big, but I didn’t realize this until here recently. No, there’s not a romantic story behind it per say, it’s just the story that is Us- the turmoil, the arguments, the disappointments, the irritations, but also the love, compassion, joy, overwhelming peace, and wholeness. He knows me like the back of his hand and I know him just the same. It amazes me what you’ll learn when time and growth are key ingredients in a relationship. 

  
  Am I saying we’re going to get married tomorrow? No. And I don’t consider him Mr. Big because he has a phobia of commitment but I am saying that I wouldn’t trade any of the down times because I’m exactly where I want to be. He is humble, kind, goofy, sexy, intelligent, loving, caring, protective, encouraging, and tons of other things but I don’t want this to be a novel. I remember I used to relish in the logic (or lack there of) watching Sex & the City, but I would have never guessed that I would be placed in a similar situation. I’m saying all of this to say this, relationships are not perfect but if two imperfectly perfect people love one another enough to stay together- anything is possible. Who knows what else is in store for us? 

I know I don’t usually indulge into my personal life, but I just felt like sharing my thoughts with you all. I hope you enjoyed this as much as I enjoyed sharing it. You can find me everywhere on social media, follow me @LeahLaRae__ on Instagram and LeahLaRae on Snapchat so I can connect with everyone.

              Talk to you later, 

                     Leah La’Rae 😘

Dedicated to my Mr. Big ❤️

10 Question Tag

  
   Hey loves! Happy Tuesday, I hope everyone has had a great start to your week. I’ve been in a tag mood lately, so I decided to join in on the fun with this one thanks to TeaIsForTine; make sure to check out her Lifestyle blog as well, so let’s get started. 
1. Do you have a middle name?

   Yes, it’s La’Rae and I love it !

2. Would you rather use a kindle or have a book?

   Book; I prefer the actual feel and smell of a book in front of me. 

3. Hot or cold weather?

   Cold; my allergies don’t mess with me and I can wear all of my fall attire. 

4. Would you rather blog everyday or never use your blog again?

   Blog everyday, duh!

5. What was your favourite holiday? (If you’ve never been on holiday, where would you like to go?)

   Every holiday, honestly. I think it’s because I was an only child raised in a home where holidays were always celebrated- no questions asked. 

6. Can you speak multiple languages?

   No, but I am looking into learning Arabic and maybe one more but I’m not sure. 

7. If you had to describe yourself as an animal, what would it be and why?

   This was difficult, but I would say a lion. I’m quiet and to myself for the most part, I’m also get patient, but once I’m crossed- you’re in for a rude awakening. 

8. What object is currently to the left of you?

   Beats by Dre Studio Wireless Headphones, I listen to music before bed. 

9. Colouring pens or colouring pencils?

   Pencils, all day. 

10. Who knows you the best?
   It would have to be my mom; 1) Moms know everything 2) she’s my best friend and I’m constantly talking to her, unless I’m in class or at work. 

   That’s it folks! I have had a blast sharing this tag with you guys and I hope you loved it as well. I have some exciting posts coming up for you all, so stay tuned for those. You can find me everywhere on social media, follow me @LeahLaRae__ on Instagram and LeahLaRae on Snapchat so I can connect with everyone.
          

             Talk to you later, 

                  Leah La’Rae 😘   

This or That Tag (Makeup Editon)

  
   Hey loves & welcome to another tag! I usually scan through to see the new, fun things people are reviewing and when I saw this I thought it would be fun to join in. These are my personal opinions on what I do or don’t prefer on a daily basis- let’s get started !

  

Makeup:                                                                                                                                          

Blusher or Bronzer? Bronzer

Lipstick or Lip gloss? Lipstick

Eyeliner or mascara? Eyeliner

Foundation or concealer? Foundation

Neutral or colour eyeshadow? Neutral eyeshadow

Pressed or loose eyeshadows? Pressed

Brushes or sponges? Brushes

  
Nails:   

OPI or China Glaze? OPI

Long or short? Long (Coffin or Stiletto Shaped to be exact) 

Acrylic or natural? Acrylic

Bright or dark? Mainly dark, except for Big Red Apple by OPI 

Flower or no flower? No flower

  
Body:       

Perfume or body splash? Perfume 

Lotion or body butter? Body butter

Body wash or soap? Body wash

Lush or other bath company? Lush 

  
Fashion:

 Jeans or sweatpants? Jeggings lol 

Long sleeve or short? Long

Dresses or skirts? Dresses

Stripes or plaid? Plaid

Flip flops or sandals? Sandals

Scarves or hats? Scarves

Studs or dangly earrings? Studs

Necklaces or bracelets? Both

Heels or flats? Heels ALL DAY! 

Cowboy boots or riding boots? Riding boots

Jacket or hoodie? Jacket

Forever 21 or Charlotte Russe? Charlotte Russe

Abercrombie or Hollister? Abercrombie
  

Hair:

Curly or straight? Curly

Bun or ponytail? Bun, messy bun. 

Bobby pins or butterfly clips? Bobby pins (I always lose them though) 

Hairspray or gel? Hairspray

Long or short? Long

Light or dark? Dark

Side sweep bangs or full bangs? Side sweep bangs

Up or down? Up unless I’m wanting curls or something

   And there you have it! I hope you all enjoyed this as much as I enjoyed sharing and writing it. Do we share a few similarities? Let me know in the comment section; stay tuned for a book review, as well as, many other posts coming your way. 

       Talk to you later, 

                 Leah La’Rae 😘

The Girly Tag

 
 
   Hey loves! I hope everyone’s week is going well, I’ve been swamped with exams this week so I decided to do something fun for a change of pace. I saw ALITTLEBITOFJESSICAMAE do this tag, and I thought it would be fun to join the fun; Let’s get things started!

Makeup

  

What foundation do you use? Mac Studio Fix Fluid in NW 44 and Revlon PhotoReady in Cappuccino 

What powder do you use? Mac Studio Fix in NW44

What eyebrow pencil do you use?  I don’t use an eyebrow pencil; Honestly, I use a mix of different eyeshadows with an angled brush and clean my brows up with concealer. 

What eyeliner do you use? I don’t like eyeliner, to be honest; I use any medium to dark eyeshadow shade under my eyes, but if I had to choose it would be NYX Matte Liquid Liner. 

What mascara do you use? Total Intensity Beyond Lash has been my favorite for a while now.   

What are five of your favourite lip balms/glosses/sticks?  Cyber (Mac), Whirl (Mac), Ruby Woo (Mac), Nivea Honey & Milk, and Nivea A Kiss of Smoothness 
Hair

  

Do you colour your hair? No, I’m to afraid to. 

At the salon? Nope. I haven’t been to an actual salon in years!

What is your stylists name? My hairstylist is my best friend Danielle; She’s been doing hair for years.

What is your natural hair colour? Off Black 

Do you have straight or curly hair? Very Curly!

Do you use a curling iron? I do, but I rarely use it. It’s old, so I can’t even tell you the name of it. 

A straightener? Yes, and it’s just like my curling iron- old. I need to find a new one, any suggestions? 

Do you use serum and if so what kind? I used to, but I don’t anymore. 

Do you use any other hair products and what kinds? Outside of olive oil for my natural hair and hairspray every now and again when I wear weave, nope. 

What shampoo and conditioner do you use? Creme of Nature Detangling Conditioning Shampoo, Creme of Nature Moisture Extreme Conditioner, and Cantu Shea Butter Complete Conditioning Co-Wash

Scents

 
 

What deodorant do you use? Degree Ultra Clean Pure Clean

What body wash do you use? Dove Go Fresh Body Wash 

What perfumes do you use or like? Pure Seduction (VS), Allure (Chanel), Sensual Amber (BBW) 

Do you always have to smell good? Yes, yes, yes! If I don’t or I feel like I don’t, I become self conscious; I mean, who doesn’t want to smell good?

Jewelry 

  

Are diamonds really a girl’s best friend? Yes, and pearls- don’t forget those. 

What jewellery do you wear the most? Delicate necklaces and rose gold anything. 

What jewellery do you crave the most? My rose gold watch, I never go a day without wearing it. 
Purses & Shoes

  

How many purses do you own? 10

Which is your favourite? DKNY Black Satchel 

How many shoes do you own? 40+

Which pair is your favourite? I can’t pick a favorite, but my most of my favorites are from Charlotte Russe. 

Shopping  

  

What are your top 5 favourite stores to buy clothes? Gap, Charlotte Russe, Forever21, Zara, and Lulu’s

What is your favourite shirt? My favorite lounge shirt has to be my maroon VS sweatshirt and my favorite everyday top would be a classic white tshirt. 

What are your favourite jeans? Legging Jean size 28r by Gap- I love these. I think I have 5 pairs of these! 
Miscellaneous

  

Favourite nail polish? Big Red Apple by OPI 

Favourite magazine to read? Vogue, hands down. 

Favourite book? Right now, it would be The Art of Strategy. 

Favourite band? Don’t have one. 

Favourite girly movie? He’s Just Not That Into You 

Do you enjoy being a girl? Absolutely! It’s never a dull moment and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. 

So there is my Girly Tag! I loved sharing my girly favorites with you and I hope you did as well. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, so stay tuned for something special coming soon. What are some of your girly favorites? Let me know in the comment section below!

       Talk to you later, 

            Leah La’Rae 😘 

Get To Know Me Tag!

 

    Hey lovelies! I hope everyone has been having an amazing start to the Christmas season, I know I have; getting everyone’s gifts together has been a little hassle, but nothing I can’t handle. I’ve been lucky enough to be tagged for the Get To Know Me Tag! I thought it would be fun to do, so let’s dive straight in …

1. Are you named after anyone?

   Um… Not that I know of. My name is Hebrew, meaning “fullness” and it can be found in the Bible.

2. When is your Birthday?

   October 21st; Shoutout to all of my lovely Libras!

3. Share your favourite subject in High School?

   English; reading and writing have always been a fun/easy way to express myself. Plus, there is no better feeling as a writer to get lost in a good novel.

4. What are your 3 favourite colours?

   Purple (Royalty), Pink (Femininity), and Green (Vitality) ; I grew up loving the color purple and only learned the meaning during my teens. Pink is always a favorite of mine since I’m a girl, but pink and green are also the colors of my wonderful sorority- Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.

5. What are your 3 favourite quotes? 

   “Never a failure, Always a lesson” – Anonymous Proverb

“One of the most courageous things you can do as a woman is to identify yourself, know who you are, what you believe in and where you want to go. ” – @MsBentivegas on IG

“Letting go means coming to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.” – Life Lessons (available to download on AppleStore.com)

6. When was the last time you cried?

   Truthfully, about a week and a half ago; I’ve always been one to take care of others before myself and things had gotten overwhelming for me and I just needed to release the pressure.

7. If you were another person, would you be a friend to yourself?

   ABSOLUTELY! Someone I can twerk with and sing horribly with while getting dolled up just to walk around the mall for no reason- yeah, I think that would be fun.

8. What is your favourite song at the moment?

Don’t by Bryson Tiller

9. What are your 4 favourite shows on TV and Youtube or both?

   TV: Power, Jane The Virgin, Scandal, Love & Hip Hop

YouTube: BuzzFeed, Skorpion Show, AaliyahJay, Shirley B. Eniang

10. What are the 3 qualities you like in a best friend?

   Trustworthy, dependable, and honesty

11. What is the first thing you notice about people?

Teeth/Eyes; working in retail, I talk to tons of people everyday so the first thing to catch my eye is between your teeth or eyes. It all depends on what I’m doing when we speak to one another.

12. Scary movies or happy ending?

   Happy ending.. I like scary movies and all but I’m a whimp throughout the whole movie, so happy is always a good choice for me.

13. What is a perfect holiday for you?

   I’m not a big holiday person, to be honest. I like the season of giving which should be all year round, but a perfect holiday would be a simple day with the people I love and us just having a good time together.

14. On a scale from 1-10 rate your childhood?

    I’d probably rate it a 7; overall I had a fun childhood and I was the baby in the family, so that was always a plus. (Let’s pray for my husband who’ll have to deal with me and the foundation set by my family!)

15. Who are some of your favourite You tubers?

   AaliyahJay, Nitraab, Tymetheinfamous, Shirley B. Eniang, Ivy Powell.. Just to name a few. Follow them all if you haven’t already !

16. If you could write a book, what would the title be and what would it be about?

    Epiphany; it would be about a young lady and the adventures she encounters, as well as, the lessons she learns as she dives into the journey to self.

17. What makes you angry?

Inconsideration, unnecessary or rude pettiness from people, drama starters, disloyalty… These are the quickest things that irk my one good nerve.

18. What make you happy?

   Family, friends, books, writing, and music; these aren’t in any order as they weigh about the same in the ability to make me happy. Surprised I didn’t say clothing or fashion? Well, though it is something I do love the things I listed actually have a bigger impact on my joy.

19. What are your 3 favourite food?

   Pineapples, hot wings (boneless), and Italian food (I don’t have a favorite food because I have yet to have an Italian dish that I don’t like.)

20. What are your 3 favourite drinks?

   Water, Mellow Yellow, Cosmopolitan (Drink Responsibly)

21. What are 10 random facts about you?

   1) I’m a goofball

2) I’m shy

3) I have a love/hate relationship with getting dressed in the mornings

4) I’m a stickler for being on time

5) I have had an anxiety disorder since childhood

6) I’m obsessed with body care products

7) I’m obsessed with rose gold everything

8) My eyes give away everything (No Poker Face)

9) I prefer instrumentals and oldies more than current music

10) I’m a homebody

And there you have it !! I hope you guys enjoyed this tag; I had a lot of fun doing it. Let me know some things about you down below, maybe we have some things in common or ask me more questions if you want. In the meantime, I’m working on a few other things that I know you’ll enjoy so stay tuned for those.

Talk to you later,

Leah La’Rae 😘