Vegetarian Transition Update

  

   Hey loves and welcome back to my blog! I hope everyone is having a good day and the week is going well for everyone so far. Today I wanted to discuss my journey to becoming a Vegetarian. For starters, I’m having so much fun with this transition even though it has been a challenge. 

  
   This has been one of the funniest things I’ve come across since I’ve started this journey; Especially from people I know. Let me say something regarding my new lifestyle and everyone knows everything that has anything to do with nutrition or my favorite question is “Well, that’s great and all but what do you eat?” Honestly, I don’t think I’ve ever laughed this much from a lifestyle change. 

  
   Most accurate graph EVER! These questions are very frequent and kind of silly to me now, but that’s because of the research I’ve done; granted, I don’t judge anyone else if they decide to eat meat. I just answer any questions they may have and no, I don’t think I know everything and can argue with the best of them- Quite the contrary actually. I’ve learned that a lot of people know exactly what happens to their food they either 1) don’t care or 2) They try to buy cruelty free food which makes them feel better about eating meat. Which both are fine with me, but I can’t stand it when others attempt to force me back into that only lifestyle. The best thing about this is that I’ve met so many local vegatarians that have helped me tremendously with different recipes and just being overall encouraging. 

  
   Speaking of recipes- I have gone crazy in my kitchen. At first, I was completely lost on what I could and couldn’t eat, especially when it came to attempting to read food labels but after running to the Internet and picking up a few cookbooks from BooksAMillion I was all set as far as figuring out what to eat. I’ll be honest and say there was a point where I thought I could just jump all in.. Let’s just say I wasn’t a happy camper. So, don’t be like me- take your time. It’ll be easier on you, trust me. With that in mind, on very few occasions, I’ll have a cheat meal but it’s usually something small like fish since I used to be a Perscatarian. If I do have a cheat meal, I have to constantly remind myself that this is a transition so it’s okay to cheat just make them far and few and make sure it’s close to the diet you already follow. 

  
   Let’s talk the health and fitness side of things. When I started this I was only trying to get rid of my occasional migraines and stomach issues, but in the meantime I’ve lost a lot of weight- 15 pounds to be exact. (Starting Weight: 155, Current Weight: 140lbs) Crazy, right ? Overall, I have more energy and I feel better about myself; I focus more and I feel like I can think more clearly as well. Before I began this transition, I was working out 5 days a week for about an hour at minimum. Now, I workout maybe 3 times a week for 30-45 minutes. This exercise change is solely because now I’m a firm believer that it’s 80% diet, 20% gym time. I have to go back to my doctor for an annual check up soon, so I wonder if anything how have things there. 

Now, with all of that said, I’m not going to sugarcoat this: Yes, it’s hard. Yes, you’re going to want to give up. Yes, you’re going to go through a detox phase that isn’t fun. It’s so worth it though ! To know that you’re not only helping yourself but your environment and the animals that inhabit our world as well is an awesome feeling. 

  
   That’s it! Thank you all for reading and I hope you all enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed sharing it with you all. Let me know down below if you guys want to know a few of the things I eat or a grocery store list! 

       Talk to you later, 

           Leah La’Rae 😘

Single Lady Saturday

  
   Hey loves and welcome back to Single Lady Saturday! Since the weekend is in full swing, I hope everyone is enjoying a little relaxation. For today, I wanted to touch on something I love to call “The Grey Area”. I thought of this while talking to a few friends and it caught me off guard at how easy it is to slip into this situation. Honestly, I’ve done it and it was the most confusing event I’ve ever dealt with. I say it was an event because of all of the drama that happened. 

   For whatever reason, we tend to want to make a relationship last especially when deep emotions were involved. Now, once you’ve crept into this “relationship” what next? Technically, y’all are single and could do whatever you want since you’re not entitled to anyone but you don’t want to step on anyone’s feelings. Any and everything is open for opportunity, but if no one attempts to find clarify in the situation nothing will change. 

   The Grey Area comes in two categories:

1. Two Individuals Afraid to Move On (Don’t think they can find better, afraid to date again, etc…)
2. Two Individuals Attempting to Figure Things Out to Further the Relationship 

   Guess what the difference is between the two? Drum roll please… COMMUNICATION. Given that I’m an extremely black and white person, this in-between area irks me more so than many of the people I don’t like. One moment, y’all are doing couple like things and everything is fine. On the other end, it’s a friendship vibe and a little distant. I don’t know about you, but the bipolar actions in the situation is not healthy nor should it become a normal issue to put up with. If there’s anything else, I choose category 2 to deal with because each person has a clear understanding as to what they’re working towards or dealing with. Category 1 is a pain in the butt-trust me. 

    

 
   During this time, you have to reevaluate who’s in your circle; you know, the people who are truly there for you-specifically the person you’re dealing with. Why are you in this situationship? Do you love them enough to allow this relationship to grow into something better? Why are you allowing this to continue? And those are just a few questions that may help you figure out what to do next, but the best thing I could tell you is patience and honesty. Patience because both of you must be ready to talk and figure things out together. Honesty because without it, this whole situation is a waste of time and don’t be afraid to be unapologetically open about everything.

   Let me not skip over the first category situation; truthfully, to not end up dealing with that comes with time and faith that things will be better by separating from that person. It is difficult, I’ve been through it and after nearly 3 years of a relationship, I didn’t immediately think things would get better. It’s okay to be a little depressed about things ending, but it’s never okay to continue to give yourself to someone when both of you know it’s time to let the relationship go. There’s nothing worse than beginning to resent someone because they’re not giving you the freedom you deserve since you all aren’t together. I mean, who wants to hear the famous line, “Why are you mad? We aren’t dating.” (My ex back then told me that, so trust me- let it go.) Who knows, maybe you all just need time apart and may come back to each other later or maybe Mr./Mrs. is right around the corner !

   Have you ever had to deal with a Grey Area relationship, if so, what’s the best advice could you give to someone dealing with it? Let me know in the comment section below. Thank you for reading along and I hope you all enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed sharing it. 

        Talk to you later, 

                 Leah La’Rae 😘

   

Collective MakeUp Haul

  

   Hey loves and welcome back ! I hope everyone has been having a wonderful week so far; there’s just a few more days until the weekend (whoopi). These last few days, I have been in and out of stores looking for different items that I’ve had my eyes on for a while. Well, I’ve finally picked up the majority of items that I’ve looked into and I decided to come on and share them with you guys. To keep things a little more organized in my head, I’m going to discuss these by where I purchased them and go from there. Let’s get it poppin’! 

  

   Urban Decay All Nighter Makeup Setting Spray

• For starters, I’ve never been one to do setting sprays but here lately I’ve noticed that my makeup doesn’t stay as long as I need it to for my longer days. This was suggested to me, so I decided to buy it. Since I’m a newbie at this, let’s hope I love it (fingers crossed). 

   Tarte Clean Slate Poreless Primer 

• I’ve always been one to use primers and my favorite so far has been from NYX. Well, I’m running out of it and I wanted to try something new. I’ve heard a lot of good reviews on this primer so why not see what this is about ?

   Laura Mercier Translucent Loose Setting Powder

• Meet one of the top items I have been dying to try. One of my favorite makeup artists Dreyah Bentivegas raves about this, along with tons of other beauty gurus on YouTube. Given my oily skin, I needed a setting powder that would keep me matte and I think I’ve found the perfect item for the job. 

   Nars Turkish Delight 

• I know everyone had heard about this one; it’s definitely an oldie, but goodie. The color is beautiful and pigmented enough for an everyday color. I’m looking forward to trying it out and see if it can live up to the hype behind it. 

   Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Wiz & Definer (Ebony) 

• Having naturally full eyebrows, I don’t need to fill in my brows necessarily but I still do because of the thinner areas and to lengthen the tail of my brows. ABH has become the queen of brows, so I decided to hop on the bandwagon to see how amazing her products are. 

   Urban Decay Illuminated Shimmering Powder (Luminous)  

• I bought this on a whim; I don’t do any additional highlighting outside of my usual contour and highlight routine but when I swatched this in the store I loved it. It’s incredibly pigmented and smooth, which only adds to my excitement. Plus, it’s a light gold color that’s really pretty and subtle but can definitely be built to be more intense. I can’t wait to try it out for my daytime looks. 

 

   Vegas Nay Grand Glamor

• If you’ve followed me for a little bit, this one may seem a bit familiar. I picked up a pair a few months ago and I lost them- how? I have no idea. One minute they were on my counter, then the next minute they were gone. They’re incredibly full, so I know they’re definitely going to add amazing detail to my eye looks. So, I picked them up again to actually give them a try to see how they’ll fit me. 

   Revlon PhotoReady AirBrush Effect Foundation (Cappuccino) 

• This in an absolute favorite drugstore brand of makeup. I’ve used it for a pretty long time and recently I ran out; I’ve never felt so incomplete with using a different foundation. Other than my Mac Studio Fix Fluid, this is my everyday go-to. Perfect coverage, it’s not too thick, and it doesn’t make my face crazy oily so it’s a winner in my book. 

   Anastasia Beverly Hills Cream Contour Kit (Medium) 

• Here’s my other item I’ve done an extensive amount of research on; the cream contour pallets have been everywhere. I’ve never tried cream for my highlight and contour routine but I wanted to give this a try. Plus, it has a eye correcting color included into the pallet which I want to try and see how well it’ll cover my dark under eye circles. I honestly think I’ll like it, I just have to make sure my technique is good. Practice makes perfect!

   Urban Decay Illuminated Shimmering Powder(Lit) 

• Yep, you’re seeing right. I bought another shimmering powder but this one is lit- seriously. It’s a rose gold tone that I’m completely in love with; the pigment and texture as the same as I stated before, so I know I’m going to love this. 

   And that’s it! Let me know what item you’re loving the most down below in the comments. Also, what are some of your new products? I’d love to find some new things to add to my collection. As always, thank you for reading my blog and I hope you loved it as much as I enjoyed sharing it. 

      Talk to you later, 

             Leah La’Rae 😘

Valentine’s Day Style Inspiration

  
   Hello my loves, Happy Valentine’s Day! I hope everyone is having a great day and enjoying this loving occasion. I just wanted to come in and give you all the details of my outfit selection for today. Let’s get started! 

The Day of Love   

 

   Since it was a cloudy day, I wanted to keep things neutral but add a pop of color and what better color than to add pink? This selection was chosen simply because my love of soft colors and cremes. The jacket is flowy around the waist, which adds a romantic contrast to the fitted dress. This dress, though fitted, it extremely comfortable and has a bit of shimmer to it. Need a touch of flare and sassiness? Add these snake print heels; Chic, sassy, and sexy equals the perfect combination-especially for today and to top it off, I added the grey clutch which matched my heels. 

 
Lovers Night Out 

 

   Now, out of the two outfits, this one is my absolute favorite. What is Valentine’s Day without someone red? I found this dress and immediately fell in love; the length, fit, color- everything is perfect. Adding the blazer only added to the spice. Fun fact about the blazer is that it’s not a full blazer. It has placed for your arms to fit but instead of sleeves, it has the slits in place to add a draping affect. I don’t know about you, but my favorite combination is black, red, and cheetah print- so, I had to add these cheetah print heels. To top things off, I added a light tan clutch that matches my shoes. 

  
   As far a jewlery and shades are concerned, the shades were just for fun even though there wasn’t any sun and the necklace has a flower detailing which reminded me of romance. Overall, I have tons of fun dressing up and hitting the town in these outfits. Keep in mind, both of these can be interchangeable with one another so the options are endless. Another plus for these is that they are budget friendly; I found all of these items at Charlotte Russe!

   As always thank you for reading and I hope you loved this style inspiration as much as I loved sharing it! 

         Talk to you later, 

              Leah La’Rae 😘

Single Lady Saturday

  

 
   Hey loves and welcome back to another addition of Single Lady Saturday! To my new subscribers, this is just a day where I come and talk about random topics that a single lady deals with. Today’s post is special because Valentine’s Day is tomorrow!

 
   Fun fact about me, I’m a huge holiday person but this one has been a little difficult. I guess that because I’ve never not had a Valentine (and yes my mom counts ). Now that she’s remarried and everyone else in my family is in a relationship, my only Valentine is myself. As depressing as that may sound, I’m actually excited about having myself as a Valentine. Since I love holidays so much, I might as well do it up for myself just like I would do for someone else, right ?

  

     As a single woman, what is there to do when everyone is making out and lovingly starting at their significant other?  Here are a few ideas… 

Dinner 

 
    I think this one was kind of expected, but I love to take myself out to eat. I would get all dolled up, just to sit and eat preferably in a booth if there’s one open. During this time, I’ll read or people watch and believe me when I say people watching can be pretty comical. Since it’s a holiday, forget about a diet and enjoy your favorite cheat meal if you want. 

Spa Day 

  

   What lady doesn’t enjoy a good spa day? Most spas have a Valentine’s Day special, so a nice relaxing time at an affordable price (depending where you go) before a nice dinner would be amazing. Facial, mani/pedi, massage, a mud bath, whatever suits your fancy- do it! I promise you’ll love yourself even more once you’re done. 

Netflix & Chill 

  

   If you have Netflix, pick a show or 4 and binge- just go for it.Grap popcorn, chips, candy, or a smorgasbord of everything and have a Movie Night In. I love these, especially when you can invite some of your friends over to enjoy the binge-a-thon with you. Plus, this doesn’t require you to dress up or anything. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the show(s)! 

Ladies Night  

    Another option for my movie lovers, go to the theater and see what’s playing; this is what I planned to do. Of course, it’s a must to dress up and invite your ladies out to have a good time. Maybe one can buy popcorn, someone can buy drinks, tickets can be split in half or you guys pay for each other’s ticket, whatever works for you guys. I like to do this more because I like to be out on the town. I mean, after the movie the Ladies Night could continue and everyone can grab a few drinks! (Drink Responsibly!)

Gifts  

  
   I love gifts whether I’m giving or receiving them, but in this case I would like to receive a few. In this case, go pick out your favorite flowers, candy, or for me- a huge teddy bear. Send them to yourself at work, home, or just pick them up yourself. For those who wonder what you’re doing, tell them or if you’re uncomfortable with telling them say it’s from a secret admirer or something aka yourself. And remember this is a day of love, so everything you do do it with love!

  
There you have it! I’m not entirely sure about what I’ll do, but it’ll be fun and full of love nonetheless. What are some Single Lady ideas you have in mind? Let me know in the comment section below. As always, I loved sharing my thought with you all and I hope you guys enjoyed it. Also, if I don’t get a chance to tell you all tomorrow- Happy Valentine’s Day!

        Talk to you later, 

                    Leah La’Rae 😘

The Girly Tag

 
 
   Hey loves! I hope everyone’s week is going well, I’ve been swamped with exams this week so I decided to do something fun for a change of pace. I saw ALITTLEBITOFJESSICAMAE do this tag, and I thought it would be fun to join the fun; Let’s get things started!

Makeup

  

What foundation do you use? Mac Studio Fix Fluid in NW 44 and Revlon PhotoReady in Cappuccino 

What powder do you use? Mac Studio Fix in NW44

What eyebrow pencil do you use?  I don’t use an eyebrow pencil; Honestly, I use a mix of different eyeshadows with an angled brush and clean my brows up with concealer. 

What eyeliner do you use? I don’t like eyeliner, to be honest; I use any medium to dark eyeshadow shade under my eyes, but if I had to choose it would be NYX Matte Liquid Liner. 

What mascara do you use? Total Intensity Beyond Lash has been my favorite for a while now.   

What are five of your favourite lip balms/glosses/sticks?  Cyber (Mac), Whirl (Mac), Ruby Woo (Mac), Nivea Honey & Milk, and Nivea A Kiss of Smoothness 
Hair

  

Do you colour your hair? No, I’m to afraid to. 

At the salon? Nope. I haven’t been to an actual salon in years!

What is your stylists name? My hairstylist is my best friend Danielle; She’s been doing hair for years.

What is your natural hair colour? Off Black 

Do you have straight or curly hair? Very Curly!

Do you use a curling iron? I do, but I rarely use it. It’s old, so I can’t even tell you the name of it. 

A straightener? Yes, and it’s just like my curling iron- old. I need to find a new one, any suggestions? 

Do you use serum and if so what kind? I used to, but I don’t anymore. 

Do you use any other hair products and what kinds? Outside of olive oil for my natural hair and hairspray every now and again when I wear weave, nope. 

What shampoo and conditioner do you use? Creme of Nature Detangling Conditioning Shampoo, Creme of Nature Moisture Extreme Conditioner, and Cantu Shea Butter Complete Conditioning Co-Wash

Scents

 
 

What deodorant do you use? Degree Ultra Clean Pure Clean

What body wash do you use? Dove Go Fresh Body Wash 

What perfumes do you use or like? Pure Seduction (VS), Allure (Chanel), Sensual Amber (BBW) 

Do you always have to smell good? Yes, yes, yes! If I don’t or I feel like I don’t, I become self conscious; I mean, who doesn’t want to smell good?

Jewelry 

  

Are diamonds really a girl’s best friend? Yes, and pearls- don’t forget those. 

What jewellery do you wear the most? Delicate necklaces and rose gold anything. 

What jewellery do you crave the most? My rose gold watch, I never go a day without wearing it. 
Purses & Shoes

  

How many purses do you own? 10

Which is your favourite? DKNY Black Satchel 

How many shoes do you own? 40+

Which pair is your favourite? I can’t pick a favorite, but my most of my favorites are from Charlotte Russe. 

Shopping  

  

What are your top 5 favourite stores to buy clothes? Gap, Charlotte Russe, Forever21, Zara, and Lulu’s

What is your favourite shirt? My favorite lounge shirt has to be my maroon VS sweatshirt and my favorite everyday top would be a classic white tshirt. 

What are your favourite jeans? Legging Jean size 28r by Gap- I love these. I think I have 5 pairs of these! 
Miscellaneous

  

Favourite nail polish? Big Red Apple by OPI 

Favourite magazine to read? Vogue, hands down. 

Favourite book? Right now, it would be The Art of Strategy. 

Favourite band? Don’t have one. 

Favourite girly movie? He’s Just Not That Into You 

Do you enjoy being a girl? Absolutely! It’s never a dull moment and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. 

So there is my Girly Tag! I loved sharing my girly favorites with you and I hope you did as well. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, so stay tuned for something special coming soon. What are some of your girly favorites? Let me know in the comment section below!

       Talk to you later, 

            Leah La’Rae 😘 

Collective Clothing Haul

    

   Hey Loves! I hope everyone enjoyed their weekend and is starting the week off strong. Welcome to another clothing entry; these are just a few items I’ve picked up over the past few days and I just wanted to share them. Let’s get it poppin’! 

Victoria’s Secret   

   

   Stopping at Victoria’s Secret usually means one thing, I need more essential tshirts and that’s exactly what I picked up. I absolutely love these; for years I have bought this shirts and they’ve become an essential part of my wardrobe. Sure, they may be a little pricey but it’s so worth it and they last a pretty long time as long as they are taken care of. Simple and comfy or dressing it up- perfect for every occasion. 

    

   I am slowly becoming an addict to these long sleeved shirts. Whenever I’m having a lazy day or just need something to grab for a quick run, this is usually one of the things I grab. Considering the crazy weather here, it’s a must have. I picked a black shirt because I have always loved black, it just gets the job done weather it’s for a dressy occasion or for a relaxed one like this shirt calls for. 

  
     So, I received this bag for free after purchasing a few items which is awesome. I love the sporty look and feel to it which makes it versatile for whatever. Plus, I’m taking a trip soon and a newcarry on bag was in desperate need so this came just in time!  
Charlotte Russe 

 
   I’ve seen dresses like this before and they look cute on other girls, but I didn’t think they would look good on me; I decided to take a chance and pick one up anyway. Honestly, my mannequin doesn’t do this dress any justice. I love it on and it’s incredibly comfortable. I’ll definitely keep this in my arsenal for the warmer months. 

  

   I know what you’re thinking- another white shirt, really? Yes, but this one is different. I bought this one larger because I’m thinking of layering it with a smaller sweater or possibly a denim jacket. It’s airy and a lot thinner than any of my other tops, so I think I may be able to try a few ideas out with this one. Also, it’s a replacement to a top I purchased at Gap about a year ago. 

  

   I found these the other day on a random shopping trip. I immediately fell in love with them, so I swapped shoes and wore them out of the store which I’ve never done. I feature these the same day I bought them too. The just gave my outfit that flow that it was missing with the others I wore. The color and detailing of the shoe is what sold me on these; plus, there are super comfortable. I picked up a size 9 and they for perfectly-10/10 in my book. 

  

   These were on sale for $10, so I thought why not? I’ve seen a kind of shoe similar to these that were worn on campus by a few others students, but I never found them in stores when I would search for them. You can’t tell in the left photo, but on the photo featured on my page (@StyledByLaRae), color is so rich that I couldn’t keep my eyes of them. They ran a bit large on me, so I got an 8 but I wish they came in half sizes since they are a little snug but it’s not too bad. 

   

   Who doesn’t need a new pair of socks? I know I did, especially pairs of ballet socks. I can’t stand seeing my socks when I wear flats or anything during the Winter months, so I found these. They’re also good colors to buy; what is there to complaint about when you’ve got good socks?
American Eagle 

  

   This sweater has been a piece of work, to say the least but not in a bad way. I initially saw this around the beginning of November, but I refused to pay $70 for it. Fast forward to last month and I thought about seeing if it was still there; to my surprise it was and 70% cheaper than when I first found it. Praise God! It’s so comfy and warm that it’s perfect for the cold. I have a collection of these going as well and grey was missing, so here it is- home with me where it belongs! 

    That’s if folks! I have had a blast sharing my new items with you guys and I hope you loved it as well. I will have a special Valentine’s Day weekend up for all of my beautiful Single Ladies, so be on the lookout for that. Since everywhere on social media, follow me @StyledByLaRae on Instagram and Snapchat so I can connect with everyone.
       Talk to you later, 

           Leah La’Rae 😘
  

Single Lady Saturday

 

   Hi loves! I hope everyone has had a great week; welcome to the weekend! I’m so glad to have a break and relax. Well, today’s topic is- What do you want? This topic came up in a class discussion, with a room full of women and I guy (What are the odds,right?). I pondered on this for a while and it made me question do I seriously know what I want, career and personal wise but how can I answer this question when I have no idea where I’m headed? 

   

   

   Maybe it’s just me, but as a 21 year old woman, I can’t stand the feeling of not having any specific direction in my life but for whatever reason it’s complete acceptable. Literally, every aspect of my life is up in the air and no one says that it’s wrong. Why? I’m young, but three years ago I had to ask to go to the restroom. Seriously, how can they think this transition is possible? For starters, because it is. I know those who are my age can relate in a lot of ways. We’re prepared for our next step in life; we just have to figure out what that next step is. 

   And when it comes to dating, it’s no different. Being this young, most people say to go explore and have fun but when we do it’s an issue. Why? Who really knows- it still confuses me. I think this is the only time where my mom has NOT said anything about anyone I ask her about or that she sees me with. And if you knew how close my mom and I were, this would freak you out too. 

   So, what’s a woman to do when she feels lost? Nothing. 

 

   Well, not exactly nothings rather be still. Every instinct we have is a push or pull in the right direction to self. Meditate and understand where you are in life, as well as, where you want to be. We watched a video in class a few days ago that spoke on how our instinct is the greatest tool we can use in any situation. To think with a instinctual mind is far greater than an spontaneous mind because though it is a “feel” of a situation there is an intellectual side to it. The saying, “everything happens for a reason” is true because that reason, though as painful as it may be, is a turn in our direction in life towards our manifest destiny. We just have to be willing enough and in tune enough to see it. 

   This is where meditation comes in; with everything going on around us, it can seem difficult to take a second to relax without wanting to take a nap. (Trust me, I know how you feel. I love nap time!) The thing is, we cannot give to others that we do not have. That’s why you have to keep yourself in tacked or “full” with whatever you need to stay in line with yourself. This can be broken down to what your spirituality may be- not religion, spirituality. Specially, what you do to keep yourself full. For me, it’s grabbing a book and a cup of tea or yoga every other day. For you, it can be completely different and that’s okay. The point is to take a moment to appreciate where you are in your journey and begin to work on yourself from within. Besides, a Queen without direction is a dangerous thing and not in a good way. And you’re not alone; I have to do it too and will be, so we can do this together! 

 

   Have you ever thought about that, seriously thought about that? In another video I’ve seen recently, studies have proven that for us to be born again with the same parents and circumstances are 1 in 400,000,000,000- now, that’s saying something. Now, do you see how serious is it for you to figure you out? That’s crazy. This means, that whatever direction or path you’re supposed to be on has to be traveled by you. Meditate on yourself and find the balance of yourself; once you’ve tuned in, all you need is the willpower to get it done and trust me, you’re not always going to feel like it but it’ll be worth it in the end. No one wants to be “just fine” our goal is to live. We just have to stop screwing ourselves out of pure happiness and wholeness. 

    Overall, this week has been an eye opener that I can’t do it all and that’s okay. I can’t be everything for everyone or be everywhere for everything and that’s perfectly fine. I’ve stretched myself thin enough to realize that. What are your thoughts on this? What ways do you keep yourself in tune? Let me know down below! If you’re interested in the videos I mention earlier, here they are: How To Stop Screwing Yourself by Mel Robbins and Oprah Winfrey on Career, Life, and Leadership (both on YouTube). Thanks for reading and I hope you enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed sharing it…

       Talk to you later,  

           Leah La’Rae 😘

Boobs R Us

 
   Hey loves! I hope everyone is doing well; I know I have been amazing but busy nonetheless. I know this photo is a little out there, but this post is going to be on my journey through the breast augmentation process. I’ve gone back and forth of whether I would share this, but I thought it wouldn’t hurt plus I’d like to connect with those who may be thinking of getting this procedure done or have had it done. 

   **DISCLAIMER: If you’re against plastic surgery or any type of body enhancements, please exit this post; Any negative comments will be blocked from this blog.**

  
   Why plastic surgery? 

          For starters, I want to say that I absolutely love my body- flaws and all, but if there were one thing I could change about myself it would be the size of my boobs. (Yes, I say boobs cause breasts seems a bit more formal and this is just a fun conversation.) I’ve had the same size boobs since high school and honestly, I don’t feel completely in everything I wear or when I’m naked. For years, I’ve listened to my mom say that sooner or later the girls will grow in and everything will be fine but at 21, I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s not going to happen. Also, this surgery has NOTHING to do with attention seeking or wanting to impress some guy; I decided to do this because I want to feel more confident and comfortable with my breasts. So, why not get them done?

   What am I getting done? 

          Breast Augmentation; I decided on this because fat transfer to breast seemed too scary to me, honestly. 

   Who is my surgeon and where will my procedure be held? 

          My surgeon is going to be Dr. Deason C. Dunagan and my procedure will be held in the Dunagan, Yates, and Alison Plastic Surgery Center. 

   Nurse’s Consultantation 

          On Tueaday, I was able to visit the surgery center in Huntsville, AL and it was a very nice facility which was good. Everyone was extremely welcoming and open to answer any questions I had before while I was being checked in. My nurse was and is awesome- seriously! Nicest, most honest person I’ve met in a doctors office. She has me and my best friend watch a video that explained how my first consultation with my doctor would go, as well as, how the procedure will go. After that, we go to the good stuff- the implants. I am a 34B, so she had me wear a bra that was the sister size of that (32C) in order to see how and what kind of implant I wanted. I knew what size I wanted to be, but I had no idea what size implant that would equat to. I wanted to be a full C, small D cup range. She gave me two implants, one was 250CCs and the other was 400CCs; after seeing the difference I knew that the 400CC was exactly the look I wanted. When it comes to the decision of silicon or sailine, I had no doubt that I wanted sailine and that really just my personal preference. We also went over before and after photos just to see how each surgery differs from person to person. 

  
   Overall, the visit was great and extremely informative. It gave me confirmation that I am making the right decision for myself. I’ve already scheduled my next appointment with my surgeon, so I’m excited about that. I will keep you guys update on how things go; if anyone has any questions or have been through this before leave a comment below! I hope you all enjoyed reading this as much as I enjoyed sharing it with you all… 

        Talk to you soon, 

                 Leah La’Rae 😘

Beauty Haul

  
   Hello my loves! I hope everyone is doing great; things have been pretty crazy on my end. I’m learning that I’ve spread myself a little too thin with everything I’m getting into, but it’ll all be worth it in the end- right ? Well, I have accumulated a bunch of stuff and I had to share my new goodies with you guys; these aren’t in any particular order, so let’s get started ! 

   
   Garner SkinActive Micellar Cleansing Water 

       I don’t know why or what I’ve been doing reason why I haven’t taken the time to try this product. I’ve heard a lot of positive things about this and I’ve been looking for a product that can still remove my makeup, as well as, cleanse my skin without any harsh chemicals or anything extra. Let’s cross our fingers and hope this goes well. 

  
   Neutrogena Body Oil 

        One of my best friends swears this stuff is amazing and I finally broke down to buy it. I do love my body oils and butters, but I have a feeling that this may become my new favorite. I was able to use a sample of this and it felt so good on my hands, so I can only imagine how well this will do on a good spa day. 

  
   Bio-Oil 

        In addition to my grown g oil collection, this is definitely a must have! It’s an oldie, but goodie type of product in the beauty industry. I’ve heard a vast amount of positive views on this, but it only began to catch my interest these last few months. I do have a few stretch marks, so I want to see how well it does with their appearance. 

  
   Feeling Beautiful Mint & Lemon Clay Mask; Pineapple Enzyme Mask 

      Who doesn’t need a new mask every now and again? If you’ve followed me, you know I have one mask that is and has been my all time favorite. Well, I’ve come to the conclusion that one mask just can’t do the job all of the time- especially when the seasons in Alabama can’t seem to keep it together, which is reeking havoc on my skin. They smell amazing and I can’t wait to try them! 

  
   Ardell Demi Wispies 

      Let me introduce my first loves, the ones who started my journey into FalsieLand- Demi Wispies. I haven’t worn these in forever nor have I really seen them while I’m out shopping (mainly because I’m not looking). I stumbled on these on accident and they were the last ones, so I had to grab them. They’re natural, but give the volume that makes my eyes pop. I just adore them! 

  
   Victoria’s Secret Pure Seduction

       Pure Seduction is AMAZING! I initially bought this to push my total over $75 to receive a free bag (don’t judge me), but once I got home and smelled it I was in love. It’s a great fragrance for those special occasions and this purchase was definitely timely since Valentines Day is right around the corner. 

  
   Nivea Milk & Honey; A Kiss of Smoothness 

      Here are my two favorite lip balms; for years I’ve tried other lip moisturizers but I always come back to these. I use both for everyday use, I love to use A Kiss of Milk & Honey after I finish a lip scrub; it definitely soothes my lips and smells good too. 

   I’m so glad I was able to come and chat with you guys about my new additions to my beauty collection. I will do a review on the newer products in a later post. Also, I have a few things coming up that I’m sure you all will love so stay around for that. In the meantime, let me know some of your new products and what was your favorite product from my haul. Thank for reading and I hope you enjoyed !

       Talk to you later, 

            Leah La’Rae 😘